My sister...Auntie Sara

A few weeks ago, my sister came to town to help out with the babes. Frank picked her up from the airport. She walked in, pushed her sunglasses on top of her head, washed her hands and immediately took over the duties. She still had her backpack on while she was receiving instructions on how to prepare the bottles. She fed the first babe with the sunglasses holding her hair back. She was not messing around with wanting to help out, and we appreciated it.

I treasured those days that she was here. Since I am a new mom, I have a whole new perspective on what it takes to get through the day. Sara had her kids 13 years ago. At that time, I visited her in Orange County every six weeks or so, depending on my work schedule. Looking back, I was very disconnected to the world of motherhood. I contributed to her life by photographing her kids, spending my time getting to know them, and being the best Auntie that I could. I never felt a love for children like I did with her three babies. It was always tough to leave them after a weekend.

In those early days, my sister and I connected through her children. I saw how much she had to change her life, adapting to each child, moving twice during that time, and learning to balance work and motherhood. It wasn't always an easy road, but she made it through. Our conversations were very brief between having to balance the little ones and her sister who lived 500 miles away. Reflecting on those times, and looking up to her as a mother and a sister, I know what I can expect in the next few years. And I know I can do this.

When she was visiting, I relied on her recent experience to understand what I am going through during this new experience of motherhood. She was so compassionate and empathetic to my life right now. I cried. I asked questions. I looked for clarity. It was such a relief to hear her comforting words and often humorous stories of how she survived her first years. Her words felt like that hug that you really need at the end of a tough day. Her visit was just what I needed. She also promised to come back for a visit in Jan-u-ly - which is July...or is it January? Whatever month it is, we are excited.

She brought her traveling companion - her camera. As most of you know, she has her booming photography business in Southern California - Sara Ancich Photography. She and I love to take photos, but to have her help and eye on our babes made it that much more special. She was able to capture the babes alone and together. She snuck a few photos while I was taking a nap, and I thought the babes were, too. She also took a few special moments of Frank and I as a family with our babes.

Enjoy.

xoxoxox